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Keeping kids happy on car journeys

Monday, February 13th, 2012

It’s half term! You’ll probably be driving somewhere at some point with the children in the car! Good luck…

To help we asked Sainsbury’s (this isn’t a sponsored post, by the way) to come up with some great ways to keep the kids (and more importantly, you) amused while on the road.

With portable entertainment technology coming on leaps and bounds, long car journeys with the children needn’t be the mind-numbingly dull affairs they once were.

But while it certainly helps, you don’t necessary need the latest gadgetry to keep the kids entertained and get safely from A to B, without the tetchiness and tantrums so often associated with long family car journeys. We’ve put together our top five tips for in-car sanity.

1) In-car movies. Portable DVD players are God’s gift to parents everywhere. Allowing the kids to watch movies in the car keeps them quiet (particularly if you also invest in a set of headphones!), happy and entertained for up to three hours at a time. Many manufacturers now make screens that are designed to attach to the back of the front headrests for the ultimate in-car viewing, but if you want something a bit more versatile then tablet computers with downloaded movies can also do the trick. Plus if you’re generous and give each child their own machine there will be no arguments about which film to watch. Unless they all want to watch the same film. Or someone’s batteries run out first.

2) A good book. By encouraging your children to read, you’ll be helping with their learning and development. They don’t need batteries, they’re not noisy and they’re easy to carry around – perfect! Try using your in-car time to get them reading, and revel in the peace and quiet while feeling smug about your superior parenting skills! Cars are much better balanced nowadays making motion sickness much less common. But if you’re worried get them used to reading on shorter journeys before embarking on a six-hour marathon.

3) Games consoles. Yes, portable games consoles have injected a new lease of life into boring car journeys. Just plug in their favourite game, attach the all-important headphones and they’ll zone out into a completely different world of fun. Hours of entertainment, literally at their fingertips.

4) Old fashioned games. Yes, on really long car journeys there will come a time when you have to resort to playing games, for the sake of their eyes if nothing else. ‘I spy’ gets a tad boring after all of five minutes so instead try ‘yellow car’: keep an eye out for yellow cars and yell if you’ve seen one – the first one to yell wins one point. Or ‘alphabet’ – the first person to spot all letters of the alphabet, in order, wins (letters can be see on road signs, registrations plates – anywhere they can be easily read). We also love splitting into teams – one looking for, say, red cars and the other team looking for cars and caravans. A bit of healthy competition really helps keep boredom at bay. And making up stories is fun. Simply take turns to say one line each, and make your turn as silly as possible for maximum giggles.

5) Navigation. It’s amazing how much fun you can have with a map! Get the kids to close their eyes for a few minutes, so that they can’t see any road signs or clues. Then, when they open them, they’ve got to use the map to spot your location. You can also get them to keep a log every half an hour Star Trek style, by giving you an update and putting a cross on the map (‘Captain’s Log number 3… We are at junction 7 on the M5’). Chucking a compass into the mix is also a good idea. Ask children to help you navigate and they’ll really enjoy saying, ‘NOOOOO! We’re now going East and we’re supposed to be going WEST!!’

6) Have a chat. If all else fails, you could always use the opportunity to have a conversation. Choose your topics carefully to keep everyone interested. A good idea is to get everyone to think for five minutes about the most interesting piece of information they know – be it a fact, something you’ve done, or something you’ve seen. Then give each person a chance to share their interesting thing, and ask them questions about it for five minutes. This is really good for large families, as everyone is included and listened to.

Peace of mind

Keeping the kids entertained takes the stress out of your journey – so does knowing you have adequate car insurance cover.

 

 

Create beautiful rooms for children

Thursday, February 9th, 2012

 

You don’t need to spend a fortune to create a beautiful, creative space for your children. Wall stickers, clever ways with paint (we used blackboard paint in a vibrant blue on an inside wall on a playhouse) and shelving as storage and display can all personalise. You can also spend a fortune getting the look just right.

If you need inspiration, look no further than the biggest ever angels & urchins Interiors Directory. From Bedlinen to Wall Art & Stickers you can find desks, clocks, rugs and flooring and a dream team of Interior Decorators, Architects and Restorers.

My favourite find? A Place for Everything because I yearn to live in a haven of organised calm. Their Lego storage boxes look just the thing to help stash away the mountains of the plastic bricks that seem to live all over our floors, under the kitchen table and even in my bed.

Become a digital parent

Saturday, February 4th, 2012

Everyone has a parenting story to share – why not share yours?

TV production company ITN are looking for new mums and dads to share their stories about pregnancy or living with newborns. They want to film a series of short stories that will be available at the touch of a button to give new parents advice and guidance 24 hours a day.

Want to get involved?

  • Are you available for filming on Thursday 9 February in North London?
  • Are you either a new parent or pregnant?
  • Are you happy to be filmed for illustrative purposes – ie. you won’t actually have to talk just use actions, such as drink a glass of water, in order to illustrate that taking in fluids can help combat nausea

Transportation costs and food will be provided, plus pre-filming make-up.

If this sounds like your kind of thing and you’d like to help make pregnancy and new motherhood easier for other parents, get in touch with:

Claudia Guerretta by email at claudia.guerretta@itn.co.uk

 

National Bug Busting Day!

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

The word ‘nit’ is enough to make most of us break out in a rash of head scratching. In my day, those decades ago, head lice affected a tiny percentage of the school age population. Now more than one in three primary school age children can expect to experience an outbreak. Why the rise? Partly the demise of the school nit nurse ‘too intrusive’, apparently; partly parents wising up to the side effects of using nuclear levels of nit- (and everything else busting) chemicals; partly head lice getting resistent to chemicals anyway.

Apparently today is National Bug Busting Day and The Family GP is running a useful guide to eradicating pests – read all about what nits are (brown winged, the size of a sesame seed) and how to eradicate them here.

In my experience (I’m not too ashamed to admit that three of my four children have had nits. The baby I suspect is still immune as he’s as ‘bald as a boiled egg’ according to one of my son’s nursery teachers) nits are boring but can be got rid of. My favourite tool is the Nitty Gritty Comb. Jonathan Ross waxes lyrical about its ‘fantastic twiddly bits’ and it really pulls out all the ghastlies, often leaving them trapped between its teeth wriggling like butterflies on a pin. Which is fascinatingly gross and not behaviour that induces restful sleep. I’m less sure about their repellent spray, only because my sons resist being misted with it and scream like banshees. It’s the ‘cold’ and the ‘girly pong’ and frankly I spend enough time chasing the boys around the house as it is.

If you’re plagued with nits, good luck dealing with them. But do deal with them. I have a friend who refuses to get rid of them, saying it’s ‘nature’s way’ and they’ll ‘drop out eventually’. I now pop my sons in balaclavas whenever they go and play at her house.

Funniest blogger writes funniest book

Monday, January 30th, 2012

He’s only gone and done it. Mrshev, finalist in The MADs awards 2011 for Funniest Blog, has become an author. Clever him has gone it alone, publishing a novel using technology that wasn’t around for likes of Jane Austen or even J K Rowling. He’s self-published his amusing, wry and clever account of someone who decides to rob a bank in a very 21st century way. It seems the perfect crime, he persuades himself he has the perfect motive, and almost manages to execute it to perfection. If it weren’t for middle class guilt and guile… Oh, I’ll say no more because there’s lots of hilarious dialogue and a great twist to the end of the tale.

You probably knew you could download Kindle free to your desktop. I didn’t. But I’ve now done so and am reading Michael Shevlin’s Insecure available for £0.77 (yes, that’s genuinely a ’0′ in the right, that’s to say the left, place) at www.amazon.co.uk.

He’s a funny man, that Shevlin. Hope he’s not feeling insecure about the size of the image, above. Having mastered downloading Kindle getting a decent image proved less easy. I also hope Insecure gets turned into a movie. If Brad Pitt is on the cast list (in fact, even if he’s not) I expect an invitation to the opening night.

Growing up nicely

Saturday, January 28th, 2012

We were given some poo in a box this Christmas. It was probably the children’s favourite present.

They can’t wait to use it, and I’m all for it. It’s a National History Museum product, a small recycled box containing elephant dung manure and a sachet of sunflower seeds. We’re going to plant them all out for our annual sunflower competition. Perhaps I should do a control and see if elephant dung produces elephant-sized sunflowers.

I’m also going to try Grow Your Own for kids!, a collaboration between the Royal Horticultural Society and Chris Collins, the Blue Peter gardener. We tried growing a few bits in the garden last year, to mixed results. Squirrels got the strawberries, snails everything else, except a few small, but delicious, potatoes.

Squirrel pie is being sold nearby at the excellent weekly Balham Farmer’s Market (check it out every Saturday 9am-2pm, Chestnut Grove School, Chestnut Grove, SW12) by Little Jack Horner’s pies so perhaps I should ask him for the recipe. Little Jack Horner’s is fab, by the way. These gorgeously oozy, comfort food pies are made to traditional (sometimes with a twist) recipes. They’re available at selected London farmer’s markets or for home delivery and cost from £6.50. They’re served in blue and white enamel tins which you can keep for retro kitchen chic or return and receive from £1.50 per tin.

Win a £10,000 styling session with Dressipi

Tuesday, January 24th, 2012

It’s an online clothes shopping revolution!

I’m a fan of Dressipi. I joined it last year when the site was being tested, and it’s a great way of finding out what clothes really suit you. Enter your measurements and Dressipi will reveal your exact size in different shops. I’m a size larger at TopShop than at M&S, and when you do a lot of online shopping knowing what is likely to fit minimises trips to the Post Office.

Dressipi also finds clothing choices for you based on your profile. It’s clever – click through a list indicating which of the photographed looks you like. This includes celebrities you feel most represent your ideal style, and the kind of occasions you need clothing for – in my case the school run, the occasional party and the odd business meeting.

It’s quite revealing. My ‘fashion fingerprint’ reveals that I should avoid high neck capped sleeve dresses and concentrate on A-line styles and straight leg jeans in order to concentrate on curves and avoid my broad shoulders. Oh yes, in another life I’d have been an Olympic swimmer. Or shot putter. You can even ask Dressipi’s online stylists questions to help you find fab clothes or solve dilemmas about what to wear to particular occasions.

It’s a good time to give Dressipi a go because they’re currently running a competition to give away a £10K styling session and £1K of clothes to the most deserving group of friends.

To enter click here (then click on the pink “enter here” button)

Read more about Dressipi in WIRED and the Daily Mail

 

How to read to a classroom of rowdies

Friday, January 20th, 2012

The Tickle Book is the perfect read out loud book for a Reception class

Reading to a class of four and five year olds is surprisingly unneverving. I’ve done it a few times at my sons’ school. Your child gets to choose their favourite book, you get to read it to their classmates. The first time I did it I breezed in thinking it would be easy. How hard can it be to attract the attention of a rabble of Reception children? Wrong, so wrong. Or naive, so naive. Trying to keep the attention of an entire class turned out to be almost impossible for this rookie reader. Halfway through The Gruffalo most of the children were saying they’d heard it before and knew what was coming next. So now that I’m a veteran of at least six reading sessions, here’s what I’ve learnt.

Don’t make your book too well known. All the children will feel they know it already and might start getting squirmy. Even worse is when they all start yelling about what will happen next.

Equally, an obscure book is probably the wrong choice too. Something that was a favourite in your childhood might be irrelevant to today’s children. Orlando the Marmalade cat, alas, didn’t appeal to one bunch of four-year-olds.

Make sure you’ve read your book before. I turned up with a funny poem once, funny that is if you got the lines to rhyme. I was nervous (hey, scores of eyes staring up at you is a bit scary) and kept mumbling and missing the punchline.

Gorgeous pictures are a huge bonus, especially if they’re in a large format book. If you’ve time at the end you can hold the book up and ask the children to spot things.

It’s tempting, but don’t do what one mum did and hand out sweets at the end of your reading. It ups the ante for other mothers like me who can barely remember to turn up on time, book in hand. Plus some parents don’t like their offspring eating sweets outside of mealtimes so you’ll make yourself unpopular at pick-up.

If you need inspiration, take a look at Puffin’s 70 Best Children’s Books.

Bake, don’t fake, a cake

Wednesday, January 11th, 2012

Set sail on the ultimate dairy-free chocolate cake

Set sail on the ultimate dairy-free chocolate cake

Sigh. To my lasting shame I didn’t bake a cake for my fourth child’s birthday. I still feel the guilt now, five months on. Anyone who isn’t pinny-inspired and doesn’t feel that a real home is one filled to the brim with homemade calories won’t understand, and might even accuse of focusing a little too much on the Nigella way of life. It’s true, but I blame my mother. I can’t remember a single day during my childhood when there wasn’t something in a biscuit tin to nibble on. To give you some idea of the butter and refined sugar zone I was brought up in a day that only, (yes ‘only’) had fresh flapjacks in a tin, rather than, say, Maori kisses (a fiendish concoction of chocolate biscuits joined with oozy chocolate butter icing) was a black letter day indeed. Which – along with a natural propensity to gluttony, I can’t blame it all on my mother – has made me want to recreate the home-as-cafe for my children.

It’s a rare week that doesn’t have me baking something, where it’s butter cookies flecked with chocolate chips or a lemon drizzle cake given a tiny crunch with hundreds of poppy seeds. This probably sounds smug, but baking is more of an escape valve. It’s something I can do with the children helping, making it count as an educational activity that helps towards making tea. So all I’m really doing is indulging myself while getting out of another round of Play Doh.

One of my mother’s best ever recipes is a dairy-free chocolate cake. I blogged about it here.

And, though it might look more like an old-fashioned flat iron, the picture, above, is of a chocolate pirate ship cake I made using the recipe for my second son’s third birthday.

You think I’d be a natural to win a one-day cookery course at Leith’s Food & Wine School in West London. But, pah, I’m not allowed to enter, given that I compile angels & urchins blog. Go ahead though, it takes seconds to enter and you might just win. Don’t be put off by the competition being held in conjuction with Sudocreme; you don’t have to create a baking delight with the white stuff, the company just came up with research that revealed that quite a lot of mums would rather make a cake for their child’s birthday than buy one.

Enter here - good luck!

Pah! to cold macaroni cheese

Monday, January 9th, 2012

Nigella's Chicken Schnitzel with Bacon and White Wine

Nigella's Chicken Schnitzel with Bacon and White Wine

Happy New Year! Inspired by reading so many resolutions from other bloggers I feel that I might break my long-held rule to ignore using the new year to make a new start (why set yourself up for failure…?) and come up with a few ideas I might actually stick to. For the first time in seven years I’m starting a new January without being pregnant or waking up through the night with a tiny baby. Which means no excuses when it comes to starting an exercise regime. Saying that, even tidying a cupboard would be one up on last year. So here they are, my attainable New Year Resolutions.

One hour of exercise a week. Running along the pavement with the buggy because I’m late (again) for nursery doesn’t count. I’m going to dig out the old Davina DVD and get moving.

A new recipe once a week. There is so much inspiration out there, from Nigella’s gorgeously pastel website – I mean what’s not to like about her Chicken Schnitzel with Bacon and White Wine offering? And I love, love, love the Utterly Scrummy Food for Families blog. It offers tasty recipes, easy ideas and tips galore. Check out the double chocolate self-saucing pudding and you’ll be in glutton heaven too.

As well as the new recipe, no more eating the children’s leftover food. I don’t even like mashed potato, so what’s the point in hoovering it up. And while some cold pastas can be delicious, there are few more revolting foods than macaroni cheese from the fridge.

Sleep. No more dithering and reading just one more newspaper article or watching three episodes of Miranda on iPlayer before bedtime. Lights out, head on pillow, then I might actually wake up without baggage that Jordan would be proud of under my eyes.

I like the new government guidelines to have at least two alcohol-free days a week. I’ll probably have to invest in a few half bottles of wine though to prevent us having to finish the bottle every night.

Oh, and write a novel before the year is out. Got to have one thing on the to-do list to keep me away from the cold macaroni cheese.

Good luck if you’ve made some resolutions – any of them better than giving up booze two days a week?