Posts Tagged ‘Practical but fabulous’

7 Secrets of highly organised mamas

Monday, August 23rd, 2010
Organised mum

If this is you, tell me how you do it?

I try, but just can’t cut it when it comes to having an organised household and impeccably turned out children. School-run mornings are a cartoon maelstrom of lost shoes, children eating toast in the car, and getting to school only to realise the vital piece of sports’ kit is at home. I even left a neighbour’s child one day, having forgotten that I’d promised to take her in. So ahead of the new school term I decided to ask the experts how they do it. I picked on my most together friends, the ones who seem capable of whipping up a fortnight’s worth of lasagne before breakfast, and whose children never look as though they could do with a good wash. Here, for what it’s worth, is how they keep it all together.

  1. Put out the uniform the night before. At the same time, check the schoolbag to see if there are any notes/invitations/rancid socks lying around. Deal with anything there and then.
  2. Give each child a basket at the front door. As soon as they step across the threshold, get them to put in their shoes/gloves/hats/scarves etc. That way, all is in place the next time you need to get them.
  3. Organise a fortnightly meal rota, and shop accordingly, preferably by delivery. It might be a bit boring to think, ‘Oh, it’s Monday it must be bolognaise’, but it might also be nice to think, ‘Hurrah, I’ve got a stash of bolognaise in the freezer waiting to go!’
  4. Have a present drawer somewhere in the house, with a couple of unisex gifts (paint your own kite, fairytale book, pipe cleaners, Fuzzy Felt are all good choices), with wrapping paper, Sellotape and scissors. You’ll never again spend five hours chasing around the house looking for that elusive piece of string.
  5. Eat with the children wherever possible. This will help them have a more grown-up palate, while saving you cooking and washing up time. Soup with cous-cous poured in, and poached eggs on muffins with blanched carrots, are quick and easy teatime standbys.
  6. Leave stuff waiting at the top or bottom of stairs, and make sure you take it up or down whenever you walk past. Make a house rule never to go anywhere with empty hands.
  7. Use your white goods. Whenever you leave the house, do a mental checklist. It makes sense to get the dishwasher/washing machine working while you’re out, ready for you to empty when you get back in.

There must be loads more little time savers. Please add yours to help me get back to school in some semblance of order!

Kids Week saves rainy London

Tuesday, August 10th, 2010

Kids Week

Grrrr. No sooner do the summer holidays begin in earnest, than the heavens open. Do the fates not know how difficult it is to keep children occupied when they can’t scamper around London’s green and pleasant parks and commons? We’re currently playing balloon volleyball in the sitting room, with an Ikea soft toy dragon as the dividing line. This should hold them off for at least half an hour. I’ve snuck off to the computer to book some alternative, indoor fun for them next week in form of tickets to the annual West End theatre’s Kids Week. It runs from 13 August to 3 September (so quite a lot longer than a week), and offers a free child place with every full paying adult. There’s something for everyone, from Room on the Broom for the under-fives, to The Railway Children for the slightly older mob, to grown-up shows, including Mamma Mia and Avenue Q, for tweens and teens who consider themselves far older than you are. You can also book free activities to go with the shows, from classes making puppets, to drama workshops at the Old Vic and Royal Court Theatres. What luvvie treats.

There’s a section dedicated to theatres at angels & urchins’ What’s On – go and visit. And if you fancy writing a review of anything you see this summer, get in touch via the comments section, below.

And if you have any ideas for games that might just wear them out, PLEASE let me know! Balloon volleyball might  just end with a bang, and then we’ll be lost…

Ultimate dairy-free chocolate cake

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

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It was recently the youngest’s birthday, and the little guy has a dairy intolerance.  He also has a massive love of cake and chocolate. So I made him my mother’s oil- rather than butter-based sponge failsafe. It’s a great recipe, easy to whip together, and quantities can be doubled/tripled/whatevered, depending on how many you’ve got to cater for. Because the recipe contains beaten egg white the cake’s consistency is lovely and fluffy – sandwich it with raspberries and a rich ganache, and it’s perfect for a dinner party. But older sons had requested a pirate ship design, so that’s what doting mummy made (I know it looks a bit like a sledge…).

Here’s the recipe (sorry it’s all in cup form, but that’s how it was handed on to me). I’m afraid I smothered the cake in butter icing, but I also made a cocoa, icing sugar and water version for the birthday boy. He ate about three helpings, and was still singing merrily in his cot gone 9pm.

Dairy-Free Chocolate Sponge Cake

1 cup plain flour
1 cup granulated sugar
3tsp baking powder
3tblsp cocoa
1/3 cup oil (anything that isn’t too strong tasting, sunflower is fine)
1/2 cup hot, not boiling, water
3 eggs, SEPARATED

METHOD
Mix together all ingredients EXCEPT egg whites
Beat egg whites until stiff, then fold into the mixture
Put mixture in two Victoria sponge tins, or an rectangular baking tin, and bake for 20 minutes at 200C

Also makes cupcakes, but reduce baking time by around five minutes.

Stress-free family flying

Sunday, August 1st, 2010
Stress-free holiday? We decided to learn to fly.

Stress-free holiday? Easy. We learnt how to fly.

If you’re brave enough to take to the skies this summer, good luck. And here’s some timely advice from Cheapflights. Their newly-launched ’How-To’ series includes a stress-free guide to travelling with kids. Ahem. Not sure getting airbourne with teenies in tow could ever be described as ’stress-free’, but here are our favourites from their ideas, just in case. And click here to visit the Cheapflights tip page.

  • Get your kids excited. Involve them as early as possible by having them select a soft toy that’s big enough to be a pillow on the plane, but not big enough to be a hassle. (angels & urchins says that this might also prevent you becoming a pillow.)
  • Do as much as you can before you get to the airport. Check-in online, pack lightly and select your seat (request the bulkhead seat if possible). Find out what in-flight services are offered so you can focus on fun things early on, like watching the planes take off and land or playing in the kids’ zones.
  • Get obligations out of the way. Condensing the airport experience into bite-size chunks prevents it from becoming overwhelming. Clarify each activity by making it clear exactly what they’re participating in: “Now, we’ll go through security and after, you’ll get a treat.”
  • Refuel. Refill water bottles and sippy cups right after security. Have more snacks prepared than you think you’ll need. Raisins, dried fruits, and cereals are healthy and easy to pack, and choosing sugar-free options help to avoid in-flight mood spikes. (angels & urchins says that Tupperware food containers will also come in handy during your holiday.)
  • Board wisely. If your seats are assigned, don’t board the plane early – the last thing you’ll need is more tarmac-time. However, if you’re dealing with a first-come-first-serve policy, take advantage of the time you have and get in there. If you have the option to purchase priority boarding, do it. (angels & urchins advises that you should think very, very, very carefully before booking truly “bargain” flights when travelling with children, particularly very young ones.)
  • Surprise them. Have a small bag of toys and diversions that you’ve put together beforehand. Colouring books, cards, action figures, games and low-maintenance crafts will keep kids happily occupied.
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    If all else fails, there’s always Cornwall.

    Green Families wins work/family balance

    Friday, July 9th, 2010

    Green Families provides awareness and educational activities about eco-friendly and holistic living for families. It’s a new company that recently won a competition to benefit from a host of business and childcare services from innovative, south-west London-based combined office and childcare space Third Door. We were so interested that we invited founder Jessica St. Clair to tell us how it’s changing her life – and how she wants to change yours!

    Green goddess: Jessica St. Clair and son Henry

    Green goddess: Jessica St. Clair and son Henry

    Services on offer at Green Families include workshops on subjects ranging from Natural Parenting, Green & Clean Homes to Organic Weaning for Healthy Development. They also organise customised living consultations, and publish resources that provide families with clear guidance and information about the toxins in their environment. They will soon have a directory of “green havens” and a line of quick and fresh organic baby foods.

    How did you come up with the idea for Green Families? Did it coincide with becoming a parent, or had you been wanting to do something with a green ethos for a while?
    I had studied and worked in developmental psychology throughout my university and pre-baby years. It was a topic of discussion during my courses, and I remember being struck by the impact everyday living has on young children. I see non-toxic living as the key to healthy development, and have always been passionate about children’s issues, holistic and green living, organic and healthy foods, and resource sustainability. When my son Henry was born, my interests and life’s work became more than a calling but a personal mission.

    I spent a period during my pregnancy on bed rest, and took that time to research green and organic products. I quickly became overwhelmed by the amount of information out there, its inconsistency, and the plethora of available products once I’d found credible ones. Many close friends were starting families and having similar issues, so I decided that it was important to share the knowledge I had gained and create a resource for other families. I wanted to bridge the gap between resources/valid information and everyday consumers.

    What does your Third Door prize include? How useful do you think the facilities at Third Door will be for you as a working mother?
    The Third Door prize includes free membership, 30 hours of workspace/childcare, a business in a box package (logo design, business cards and website), 3 x 1 hour consultancy sessions – in marketing, legal, financial, PR, social media, technology, business management or life coaching advice and a laptop. In short, a lot! Basically, an entire support network, not only in setting up and establishing, but also advertising and developing the business on an ongoing basis. The best aspect of the prize is the community of working parent entrepreneurs who have to balance business ambitions with ambitions for their children in a supportive environment.

     third-door-logo

    Third Door is a no-brainer for working parents. As much as we all love to work from home, the mere idea of an accessible parent means I’ll more likely be playing with my son than working. Third Door provides the support system, the flexibility, the space and the educational stimulation for children that makes the entire prospect of a self-employed parent much more feasible.  

    Do you have any advice for mothers who want to set up a business around the needs of their child(ren)?
    Be easy on yourself. I think a lot of times we get so wrapped up trying to be the perfect parent, the best partner and a successful business owner that we put a lot of pressure on ourselves. Most entrepreneurs are naturally ambitious and perfectionist – it’s the nature of what creates us, but it also means we need to be conscious about mapping out our paths in a bite-size manner so that we don’t feel too overwhelmed.

    What three easy things any family can do to become greener?

    1. Try to eat local, organic food whenever possible. It’s important to avoid the toxins and chemicals found in conventional food products. This is sometimes difficult from a budget and accessibility standpoint, but doing the best we can helps. We also have a nice resource that we give out that lists the most sprayed and least sprayed products that any family with young children should avoid.
    2. Switch to eco-friendly cleaning products. They are widely available now and do not cost more than conventional. In fact, if you make your own (vinegar and baking soda or lemon), it costs even less.
    3. Turn off the lights (and the laptop and mobile chargers when you don’t need them). Teach your children about how to save energy and the earth by being conscious of your consumption.

    What next for Green Families?
    Our hope is to grow first locally and virtually, and then on a broader basis. We’re doing this through our immediate networks and the consultations and workshops we provide, our online tools and resources, as well as planning for the launch of a fresh and organic ready-made babyfood delivery service. 

    Every little girl’s dream shoes

    Monday, June 28th, 2010

    I do love a good pair of shoes, but the ones I’m getting the most compliments on at the moment aren’t even on my shoe rack. They exist, in my house anyway, only in postcard form, stuck on a pinboard in my study. ‘Adorable’, ‘Ooh, where are those from’ and ‘Cute!’ are just some of the comments they’ve received. The pair in question are butterfly sandals from Papillon, a gorgeous children’s shoe company which recently opened a new, flagship store on London’s Marylebone Lane.

    Papillon Butterfly Sandals

    Alas, I didn’t even make it to the opening party. But I know a woman who did, the shoe-crazy, and very chic, managing director of silk linen bedding company Gingerlily (check out Charlize Theron and Gwyneth Paltrow wearing nothing but a Gingerlily sheet on recent covers of GQ), who took along her three-year-old daughter.

    Talk about putting your best foot forward. The opening of Papillon’s flagship store was a seriously glamorous event. We were treated to cupcakes galore, face painting, and the sight of London’s most yummy mummies oohing over teeny footwear. There were even live chicks to cluck over. Thank goodness I’d thought to change out of my gym kit – this was a seriously dressed-up event, with perfectly painted nails peeping out of Jimmy Choos, and tapping on Anya Hindmarch handbags (well, one of Papillon’s co-founders is the handbag designer’s sister). Not to mention a batallion of six-year-olds skipping around in fairy outfits and Caramel cashmere.

    Papillon Cupcakes

    The shoes are cute as could be – Mary-Janes, ballerina flats in metallics, velvets and suede, and party shoes with traditional button fastenings. Needless to say, my three-year-old was in heaven, even before she was given a goody bag containing marshmallows and fruit jelly sweets (naturally flavoured, with no fake colouring, naturally).

    Face Painting

    These are shoes that will keep mums as happy as daughters – and as many of the designs go up to a size 40, you can match your look to your daughter’s). There’s nothing garish about the designs, and they’re in colours that look pretty as sugared almonds and would appeal to even the most candyfloss obsessed little princess. The boys’ range is just as traditional; classic loafers, super-soft lace-ups and – fab for mothers with boys and girls – unisex trainers in muted colours.  And all the styles are designed to care for little feet so that children won’t hit their teens blighted with bunions.

    Check it out the next time you’re on a shopping trip – I might well be there, trying to fit into the butterfly sandals. 98 Marylebone Lane, London W1U 2QA (020 7486 5530).

    Wine crate gardening

    Friday, June 18th, 2010
    A superior herbal vintage

    A superior herbal vintage

    It’s a bit of a battle, in our London garden, between the slugs, snails, squirrels, cats and foxes. Wildlife in the raw, you could say. The children love all our visitors as much as I loathe them; my experience of surburban gardening is all about tender plants being chewed to the ground, bulbs dug up, and strawberries never getting a chance to ripen before before being picked off by the squirrel brothers. But I’ve discovered that herbs tend to be avoided.

    I ordered a pack of plugs from Dobies of Devon, planted them out in old wine boxes studded with holes and lined with bin liners, and all is a-growing. I’ve snipped chives into potato salads, whipped up deliciously herby salad dressings, jazzed up fish pies with two different kinds of parsley and stuffed chickens with thyme. It’s all very low maintenance, and the children’s attention span is long enough to withstand a daily five-minute watering session, particularly when it’s sunny and they get to spray themselves with the sprinkler.

    Ask at a local wine merchant for empty boxes (or buy ‘em full and see  how quickly you can drink the contents!). It’s a good life, I tell you.

    Lock, stock and Ritchie’s striped pyjamas

    Monday, June 14th, 2010
    What a guy - putting on the Ritchie

    What a guy - Ritchie shows his stripes

    Bless him. Guy Ritchie has been stepping out again, clearly enjoying his single man status and girlfriend Jacqui Ainsley. However, he might not have counted on being papped in his PJs while waving said girlfriend off for the morning. It’s nice to see that he’s comfortable, but his striped night attire is a little more grandad than the gansta’ than we at angels & urchins blog might have expected. Though maybe he’s going for an ‘on remand’ look?

    When it comes to dashing dads, we’re huge fans of the new Zade Home range. They manage to make the wearer look comfortable and stylish, instead of (sorry Guy) over the hill and waiting for his pipe and slippers. And to help celebrate Father’s Day (20th June, just in case you’d forgotten) we’ve organised a giveaway of some Zade Home super-cool PJs. Whizz over to our competition section now, for your chance to win a little treat for him and for her.

    She’s created a monster

    Wednesday, May 12th, 2010

    I love doing crafts with the children, but so few are geared up for boys. I have three sons, and have painted pirate treasure chests, sponged spaceships on to paper, and decorated plastic Easter eggs for various bonnets. All were fun, but I suspect they’d love a Donna Wilson Make Your Own Monster Kit even more. They cost £15 at Supra, and our friends at Parklife.org, a life-enhancing blog for Kensal Rise and Queen’s Park, created this one.

    Supra Monster Fish

    Here’s how they did it.
    While fighting the urges to get Folk cardigans and toddler-sized Converse at Supra on Chamberlayne Road, we stumbled across these packs, which are perfect as rainy-day projects for gifts for kids aged 3+. Donna, whose cushions at Supra are another temptation, has cunningly converted offcuts from her hip homewares into these ingredients for a fun mini monster… Basically, you get to play Dr Frankenstein, but with slightly more child-friendly results.
    Supra Monster Fish KitEach cool arts-and-crafts kit contains one pre-stitched unique  monster shape, stuffing, felt and material strips, and easy-to-follow four-step instructions (without a word in Swedish – phew) on how to magic your one-of-a-kind cuddly creature. How you interpret these bits and bobs is up to you – just have some PVA glue or a needle and thread at the ready.

     

     

    For a feel-good 2010 angle, there’s not only the promise of some creative itch-scratching but some potential ace parent/child bonding time. Beats ready-made toys any day.

    Supra 71 Chamberlayne Road, Kensal Rise, London NW10. And if you’re on Twitter, follow Park Life at Twitter.com/ParkLifeBlog.

    Is the future ORANGE?

    Tuesday, May 11th, 2010

    How very confusing our political landscape has become. I’d never bought into the idea of a hung parliament, not least because I didn’t think it would ever happen, rather like the Nick Clegg surge. But at the end of last week, it looked as though the UK might turn from red to blue. The next day, a merger seemed likely between blue and yellow. And then last night Gordon announced that he wouldn’t claim squatter’s rights in Downing Street, a move that paved the way for punchier relations between red and yellow.

    Which means the UK outlook is now becoming distinctly orange. At least, until the end of this week, when we’ll probably ask Barack Obama to send some of his leftover senators to sort things out.

    As it turns out, orange is having something of a moment. Last summer a tangerine hue was paraded up and down the world’s catwalks. Admittedly, very little of it was wearable. However, this summer, the colour has morphed into something that’s actually quite cheery, and could just be the antidote to winter blues, economic gloom and a forthcoming summer of political unrest.

    If you need convincing, here’s some distinctively Robinson’s squash-coloured items currently available on a high street or web page near you.

    Orange M&S BikiniFeeling brave? Even without its jewel embellishment you’ll stand out poolside in this M&S bikini, £31.50. Just don’t overdo the fake tan.

     

    MyaBlue Reef Embroidered Leather SandalsThese MyaBlue Reef Sandals are going to look great with a turquoise manicure (I know, sounds a bit yuk, but apparently will be the colour of the season on well-dressed toes).  

     

    Boden Applique ToteI might treat a godchild to this cute little goldfish tote, £18 at Boden. Large enough for a beach or park-worth of necessities, but not so enormous it will weigh them down.

     

     

    Wilbur & Gussie ClutchWilbur & Gussie clutchbags make fabulous arm candy. We love the orange one which has a huge clip in the shape of a turtle. Great for weddings, and just the right colour for sultry holiday evenings.  £134.95 at The Handpicked Collection.

     

    Oliver Bonas Kate DressThe Oliver Bonas Kate Dress, £35, is perfect for this transition season. Warm it up with opaque tights, without it’ll go strong all summer.

     

     

    The Dorchester Collection’s new hotel Coworth Park , Ascot, won’t be open till September. It promises a huge spa, kids’ club, 240 acres to run around in and a carbon-neutral stance (reed beds for drainage, wood chip heating). All hotels in the collection have their own distinctive colour, and Coworth’s is, guess what? Orange. Wonder if they’ll give us a night to give away – watch this space!